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Tips to Help You Implement Asset #21: Achievement Motivation
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Actually, You Are Going to Need to Know This
Words from a teacher: "One of the most profound teachable moments I ever experienced was when I brought a flyer to school that had distracting and obvious grammatical errors and poor sentence structure. I photocopied it and handed it out to each student. We spent a few minutes reading through it, and I had the students identify all the things wrong with the flyer. Then I explained to them that this was a real flyer, sent to everyone in our neighborhood, and asked the kids if they’d hire the person who wrote it. The answer was unanimously no. Suddenly, learning grammar became much more important when the students realized it could cost them a job and a livelihood."
Youth are more likely to grow up healthy when they are motivated to do well in school. Young people are motivated to do well in school when they realize that the process of learning will help them throughout their lives. We may never convince students that reading Shakespeare, graphing quadratic functions, calculating velocity, or knowing the political causes of the War of 1812 is important, but we can be successful in motivating students when we explicitly point out the larger goal, so they understand why they are being asked to learn these things. Remember: your goal is to encourage them to enjoy learning. When they do, they can achieve anything.
The Benefits of Motivation from the Inside Out
When you leave your child alone, what does he or she usually do? What if you disconnected the refrigerator, the television, the telephone, and the computer?
Children motivated from the inside out choose activities based on something inside of them that gets them excited. On the other hand, children who choose to hang out with friends or get bored when they are alone are typically motivated from the outside in. They want someone to tell them what to do or give them ideas, and are motivated by rewards and structure.
Schools usually work the second way: from the outside in. Teachers assign homework, tests, and papers. Success is based on a system of rewards like grades or special privileges. In this kind of setting, students aren’t often encouraged to pursue their own interests, be creative, or take the initiative.
Getting any child motivated to do well in school can be tricky, especially one who is more interested in other things. If you use tactics such as promising money, rewards, or praise, some young people will find the fastest, easiest route to getting by and then may go on to something else. If you can encourage your child to feel motivated from the inside, then you’ll launch a lifetime of earning. A child who is motivated from the inside out:
Questions to discuss with your child:
Three ways to help your child become motivated to do well in school:
Your Role in Your Child’s Motivation
“Adults and children alike become more intersted in what they are doing when they get straightforward feedback about how they are doing." says Alfie Kohn, author of Punished by Rewards. Kohn says we should help our children develop self-determination, and he encourages parents to ask themselves these questions:
More Help For Parents
Unlocking Your Child’s Learning Potential: How to Equip Kids to Succeed in School and Life by Cheri Fuller.This book discusses different learning styles and how to help children make the most of their strengths. (Published by NavPress)
Keep expectations high but realistic.
What Helps and What Hurts?
Researchers at California State University writing in the Journal of Educational Psychology have found ways to motivate (or stop motivating) your child:
Motivation is a fire from within. If someone else tries to light that fire under you, chances are it will burn very briefly.”—Stephen R. Covey
About the Asset-a-Month Program This article was provided courtesy of Project Cornerstone’s Asset-a-Month program. The goals of the Silicon Valley Asset-a-Month program are to help align adults throughout our diverse community in their efforts to promote positive youth development by fostering developmental assets. For more information about the Asset-a-Month program, contact Project Cornerstone at (408) 351-6482 or firstname.lastname@example.org.